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” (And if she sticks around, perhaps consider if we are compatible for a relationship).
Well, as unfortunate as it may sound at first, that won’t be the case anymore. Use the experience you have gained as an adult to your advantage.
It is also important to get your new lifestyle back on track before you delve into the new world of post-divorce dating.
Here is a woman – twice married – who never thought she’d end up telling a man she had never met before how she cried when, post-divorce, she had to go on holiday alone for the first time. There is not a singleton alive who hasn’t had moments when they wished they were not single. I was single for four years after my marriage broke up and it was like learning a new language.
I remember going to Lyme Regis on my own for the first time after getting divorced from my husband of 13 years. You go to parties alone, you sit at dinner on your own, you buy two tickets for the theatre and rack your brains to find someone to go with you.
Lots of women now go online to find walkers to the theatre/art galleries/ dinner. It is daunting to be back on show again but it can be the upside of dating. You have to give everything time and to viewers Turner still looked heartbroken by what had happened.
I once went on a date which involved meeting at a sculpture garden. I spent years wearing baggy jeans and large jumpers covered in baby sick. I invested in ‘new’ hair all cut and highlighted and good clothes and suddenly felt like the old me again. Dating when miserable is never a good idea – box set and bottle of wine is a much better bet. My friend Anna – in an attempt to take the edge off going on a date with a man she really liked – drank most of the bottle of wine and then threw up outside the restaurant she was meeting him in.
Conversation flowed as easily as the wine and it seemed the perfect first date.